So the first day we decided to surf and Blab at the same time, we had a great time. We are on all day so we hope people come to Blab join us and surf with Wealth Builders. Feel free jump in and come up and say Hi.
Hope Everyone had Great Holidays. Its Monday again time to go back to work, but we are still in Holiday Hangover and Not in the Mood to work.
Imagine, going to a Doctor in Emergency and he says I am not in the Mood, going for a Concert and Musician/Artist saying I am not in the Mood or a Sportsmen having a game on Boxing Day saying He is still in Holiday Spirit and Not in the Mood to Play. Will their conduct be acceptable? No. Because they are answerable to People and Live In Public Life. We may not be answerable to People nor in Public Life, but we are Still Answerable to ourselves, we may be working Online, Its our Business.
Waiting for our Mood to get Right, it Robs us of Invaluable time we lose and eventually Robs us of Success, no matter what Job we do. We all have 24 hrs in a day and every hour needs to be used well. We Envy the Achievements of Great People but forget that in their time, they never waited for their mood to get Right, “Come What May” they always get on with their work, Rain, Winter or Summer, it never mattered to them.
Many People use excuse “I am not in the Mood” by saying, “Job is not worth Doing”. They wait for important jobs to come along, but the fact is “The Big Jobs they Yearn to do and Small Jobs they Spurn to do, they Actually do Nothing”. Waiting for Right Job to come your way or Waiting for Right Mood to come along, is nothing but excuse for Laziness. Take the small jobs as they come and the Bigger Ones will surely follow.
Even when you are not in mood, go to your Job and Start Working, may be first few minutes you may be slow, but slowly things will be smooth and Mood Will be On. Try It Yourself.
So Roll up your Sleeves and Get Back to Work. Don’t Look for an alibi to cover up your Laziness. Wise men only looks for One Rest – the Eternal One.
The path to Oblivion is marked with “I am Not in the Mood” and those who follow it Never Achieve Success or Happiness.
Yes. Stupid Question Right. We get Instant Reply from our Mind, but actually it’s a Question to our Heart.
We all want to be Successful, but Success should not be confused with mere amassing of Wealth, earning good Salary at job, reaching pinnacle of Glory in our Field.
Success is more than the mere achievements of Materialistic Things. Take the case of an Individual who was determined to forego all leisures, pastimes and enjoyments and even ignored family and friends to earn money. When after years of hard work, he finally got Rich. He had money but no Real Friends or Family to Enjoy the Success with, He had money to eat out at best hotels every day but lost his appetite, Is he Really Successful? Certainly Not!
If mere Money, Name and Fame were meaning of Success, then why many Celebrities, Super Rich Individuals, get addicted to Drugs, have to go to Rehab, they get depression attacks and few even commit suicide. They have reached pinnacle of Fame, but on their Journey they lost all Friends. When World lies at their feet, but they have lost the Zest for Life. They take happiness for Granted and try to postpone it.
If we read autobiography or biography of Successful Individuals and even watch their interviews, One Single Thing they regret is Ignoring Friends and Family, sacrificing happiness in their quest for Fame, Power or Wealth.
We should prepare Our Plans for Life in such a way that it allows us to Enjoy Short Term Successes, while we still thrive to win Our Long Term Objectives.
Smile – We meet hundreds of people Daily, but we don’t even care to look at them. Just smiling at while passing by when we meet People at Work Place, Mall, Bus, Trains etc. If we Smile, most people will Smile back, and You Never Know it may be the Only Smiling Face they See the Whole Day. Greeting everyone with Smile when we Arrive or Leave at any Place. Happiness of Making Someone Smile, cannot be bought by any amount of Money. We can fill our Life with these small moments of Joy without any Cost, as Smiling does not incur any Costs.
Help – Helping others is the Best Way of Making Good Friends. We can help others by lending books to our Neighbours, Colleagues etc, Helping your companions at Work when they require any help. We sometimes know that someone needs help and we can help them but we just ignore as we are too busy with ourselves. Helping Someone without any Expectations and when he really requires can bring a lot of Happiness and Joy, and can even make us true friends.
Unhappiness is due to Greed, Worry, Jealousy and Suspicion. While Generosity is the Prime Factor of Happiness.
Be Content – Being Content does not means, not having Goals and Dreams. Just be content and Happy with God, for whatever he has given us. While Striving for Better Results, we should not get bitter with defeat or delays. If we get discontent we will not be able to enjoy what we have achieved or what we already have.
Always Remember while Success often depends on circumstances of time, place and people, while Happiness depends entirely on Yourself. Whenever you feel otherwise, just say to Yourself.
“You Can be Happy, only if you Realize that it is not Our Position in Life that Matters, but our Disposition”
As I said in my Last Blog Post, we should not Worry, what has happened in Past, We should only think of “One Day at a Time”. As Christmas and New Year round the Corner, take time out of our Lives, Wish our Friends and Family, Talk to them, Meet Them, Be Happy.
“Best Way to find Happiness is not to Search for It, But Create It”.
Wishing Everyone A Merry Christmas and A Very Happy New Year.
“Spending Today, Complaining about Yesterday Won’t Make our Tomorrow any Better”
We all have many Goals in Life, we have our Dreams/Ambitions and to reach those Goals and to be Successful, the most important factor is Planning. Our Success in Life depends on our Plans. If we have our plans ready in advance then carrying them out becomes easy.
Just Imagine, can a house be build without a Plan? Our Lives are much more complicated than building a House yet we drift from one day to another without any Plans.
It does not matter how Big or Small your Goals are, either we can Complain about all the Stuff which could have been done Yesterday or Dream all the things we want to achieve Tomorrow or A day which we can do Something, i.e. Today. Today is Day we are concerned about its the Day of Action.
Blinkers – To make most of Today, we should wear Blinkers. We all know Blinkers (eye-screens) are worn by Horses to prevent them from being distracted or frightened by movements of others. We also need to wear “Blinkers” in order to fix our attention to work only for Today.
Why we need to do this, because There are 2 days than can always distract us.
First is ‘Yesterday’. Yesterday is Gone and Gone for Ever, we might have done mistakes, but its gone and beyond our Control we cannot do anything.
Second is ‘Tomorrow’. Tomorrow has Hopes, Possibilities and Promises but still its beyond our Control. Only thing certain about Tomorrow is that Sun will rise, but to make it Better we need to work Today.
This leaves us to only One Day ‘Today’. Life would be much easier and success more certain if we can concentrate all our Energies and attention to Today. It’s just because we add the burdens of Yesterday and Worries of Tomorrow which does not let us concentrate on Today.
Planning for Today, for many of us even Today can be too much to cope up with. It has 24 hrs or 1440 minutes or 86,400 seconds. Lots of time that.
Budget Your Time – The Best way to Control Time is to Budget it, leaving out our Daily Routines, we can divide the rest of our Time in 3 slots, Before Lunch, After Lunch and After Tea(evening time), and try to plan the stuff we need to do today in these respective time slots.
We all have 24 hrs but successful people are able to fit in work of 26 hrs in 24 hrs, due to effective time management and planning. They don’t have extra time, they make it by following a time budget and cutting down Time Waste.
15 Minute Formula – I personally before starting my Work Day, give 15 minutes to planning and try to fill my to do list and divide my daily work in the 3 slots and after my work Day give another 15 minutes to what all I could achieve during the day.
Initially when I started it, I used to make hundreds of tasks in my to do list being highly optimistic, and then slowly I started to learn on how much I can stuff in a Day and then become more practical and then I realized the exact amount of work I can do.
When we realize the amount of work we can do then we can start Challenging ourselves by Slowly and Slowly increasing the amount of work in our to do lists. Then we start minimizing the Time Wastes in our Day and slowly our Productivity and Efficiency too Increases over time as Time Waste reduces.
Living “One Day at a Time”, doing what is required for ‘Today’, not regretting what has happened in Past and Worrying what will happen in Future. With every Sun Rise, we should Pray
“God, for Tomorrow and Its Needs, I do Not Pray;
Let me be Happy and Content , Just for Today!”
Now is the time to Start. Lets Plan for Today and Success is Ours.
Anybody can Succeed but Are We Ready to Succeed? Are we doing things which are required to be Successful.
Three things required to be Successful are :-
- You Must Want to Succeed.
- You Must Learn how to Succeed.
- You Must Persevere till You Succeed.
Desire/Ambition – “You Can Lead a Horse to Water, but can’t make him Drink”.
This is the first step of being Successful and Only You Yourself can help in overcoming this step, People can help You, Motivate You, can Guide You, but if within there is no Desire, Ambition to Succeed, Even the best of Resources or Training or Guidance in the World cannot make you Successful.
Learning – Wanting to Succeed is not Enough, We must be ready to pay the price for it and learn how to Succeed.
In any field, we always learn our Job and slowly and slowly we start to get more perfect in it. But when we come online to Earn Money, most of us never really try to understand and Learn, how to make money online? They all work hard but seem to go nowhere, they make ambitious plans but earn no money get frustrated and Quit.
Like we do in our Offline Jobs, same way when we start Online, we also need training/guidance on how to work Online. You can contact your Sponsors/Mentors for help. You can ask your friends for help on how they earn Money Online.
There are two Wonderful Programs which give detail training on how to earn money Online.
Click Track Profit by Tim Tech, it has wonderful training videos not only for newbie’s but also experienced marketers, everyone can benefit out of it.
Traffic Profit Pro by John Bell, it has wonderful lessons from his own Journey on how he got successful and shares the secrets to his success and Experiences on running very Successful Traffic Exchanges.
We have a Wonderful Community Online, feel free to ask for help and you will not be disappointed.
Perseverance – “Some Succeed because they are Destined to, but most Succeed because they are Determined To”.
Not everyone can get success immediately; some get it early and for some it does takes a lot more time. You may not succeed in the time frame you set yourself or even some time after that, its easy to get discouraged when things don’t seem to be going accordingly to our plans. Keep Trying, Keep Pushing and not succumbing to Frustration and Despair until you succeed.
Once you learn the Art of Perseverance, Life can change, Quitting is never an Option and we Stick to our Path come what may and then nothing Life Throws at You can Stand Between You and Your Goals.
“Don’t Quit” as “You Never Know” when your Dreams Can Come True.
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